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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - thanks for the above. And yes she will refuse assisted living or any kind of group home. Likely going to buy apt in nyc near us shortly. Care manager is good idea. But it’s mainly how to provide company for a person who refuses to make friends and refuses to move into care facility, when the time comes. I cannot be the answer to that is my concern [/quote]

A care manager doesn’t have to be a certified one. Hire her a friend, give an ultimatum that this is her contact person for all her requests. Ask the person to suggest activities. Pay the person well but keep an eye on them so that there’s no scamming or anything like that. 
Ideally this person will later coordinate care. Use mother’s money to hire the person. [/quote]
No. A care manager and a companion are completely different functions requiring different skill sets. A companion can schedule hair salon and things like that, they don’t oversee medical care management. They can accompany to medical appointments and can and should have a good working relationship with a care manager, but those are separate positions.[/quote]

I am sorry but this is so American, to have an expensive “expert” for everything! How do we all manage our own medical care without a certification?! All it takes for an elderly person is for someone to take them to the dr and memorize what was said. That’s what I do for my own father. 
This is “overseeing medical care management”. 
I mean it’s your money or future inheritance, you have a right to spend it on “experts” but this is so unnecessary.
Ask anyone in any diaspora what they think about it. Heck, ask most Americans! [/quote]

some care is a whole lot more complicated than this [/quote]

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