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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I met DH on eHarmony. I was 57 and he was 60.

The first thing you need to do is buy the Burn the Haystack book by Jenny Young, PhD. It's all about how to work the apps and minimize the time and energy you waste on loser men. Instead of trying to find your Prince Charming, you learn to spot frogs, which enables you to throw them out. Once you've moved the frogs out of the way you can focus on the few men that are left. It may be that none of them are what you want and you'll have to keep sorting through.

People are less likely to pay money if they aren't really looking to meet somebody. So, I prefer the apps that charge. I like that eHarmony doesn't limit you to the men they present as options. You can select your own criteria (age, education, geo location, etc...) and review those profiles. If you like someone, you can reach out without waiting for the app to match you. The downside was that it didn't have a screen for politics back then. Maybe it does now.

Never spend more than 10 days "chatting" with a man without him asking to meet in real life. Never treat someone you've never met as a confidante, and never send more pictures of yourself to just him. Get a Google Voice number to use with dates until you're certain he is legit and not a weirdo because it is super easy to figure out where you work and live with your cell phone number.[/quote]
Wow, this is amazing advice. Thanks PP! I’ll definitely get the book and a Google voice number. -OP[/quote]

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