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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your first thought is to introduce someone new to your kids, pause and think about this first. Your kids just went through a big change. They need time to adjust. They need some extra TLC which means more QT with you! Don't add anything to their lives (except a new pet) until they've become adjusted to their new routine and have had time to decompress from all of the change with someone ( you ) who they're comfortable with.

I know you're eager to have stability yourself and to have a companion, but too much change too soon will inevitably blow back in your face. [/quote]
Better to ask "Is this person going to improve my kid's life?" Answer is usually no. "Is this person going to compete with my children for my time, attention and affection?" Answer is usually yes

I have a strong revulsion of bringing a strange man around little girls. First of all, I think they have a right to privacy from strange men in their own home. Secondly, the molestation/SA stats are not favorable.

OP why do you value yourself so little you couldnt be single for a few years? [/quote]

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