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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think places like fertilethoughts and fertilitycommunity are very good forums b/c they offer a variety of boards and separate out issues accordingly.  People are very considerate on there, especially when discussing losses and success.  [b]I find that DCUM is too lumped together - there is no heads-up if you are about to read a post about a success or loss.  [/b]

I see both sides of posters' views.  I also see that there are people out there in real pain and they need to be able to express that just as easily as the OP with 2 ivf successes.  Goes back to my comment above - DCUM is too lumped together and wold benefit from a different format like on other forums.[/quote]

You know what?  We are adults.  If you read a post that doesn't pertain to your situation, you can close it and move on.  You are not obligated to throw poo at the OP because you feel that your situation is worse and therefore more deserving of compassion.[/quote]

Of course we're adults, but the PP is right, there are a lot of posters on this forum with tough experiences and sometimes it's upsetting for someone who opens a thread thinking they're about to read about success stories to unexpectedly find an account of miscarriage or stillbirth.  [/quote]

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