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[quote=Anonymous]I agree it would be weird to have a cheering section. The answer is to refrain from cheering, just sit in your seats quietly. It seems like you want to have a traditional parenting experience by excluding the other adults and pretending that you are the only parents and the child hasn't been burdened with divorce and two remarriages. But the child will always feel put in the middle and pressured to choose, or be missing one or the other parent. I was this child and I refused to sit with either set of parents at all. I just explored the campus on my own l all day. Let them fight it out without me. Whenever the divorce is any sort of drama or hassle for me, I avoid and opt out. And I deeply, deeply resent whoever is causing the problem. Just STFU, sit wherever you want, and stop making it a thing. I didn't choose this situation, they did. [/quote]
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