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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kid picked UVA over an Ivy. Ivies have weird vibes these days. My older child is at one. They are often an exceedingly random mix of kids---super academic grinders, underprepared FGLI kids from middle America, ultra wealthy who stick to themselves. It's a odd mix. [/quote] wow! sounds like Ivies have a place for everyone! [/quote] Point taken but can be exceedingly hard to find your people if you are none of the above. And you are surrounded by a lot who are not. I know more than one kid who is really struggling socially. My own took a long time to adjust and would tell you that their college experience has been a mixed bag. Still has some regrets and they are a junior. Your milage may vary but fit is very, very important. Take a step back and don't let US News dictate what is best for your child. [/quote] My kid is at an Ivy and has a great bunch of friends- just like those described. He’s flourishing. He did not find this perpetuated difficulty, harsh environment, etc. He’s involved in so much. Having a blast, [/quote]
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