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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The above poster wasn't me. If it helps, I'm not even remotely interested in getting remarried, so I don't care about the availability of good men in my 50s. And yes, I can see how kids and grandkids having to go to two different homes would be not ideal, but the decision I'm grappling with is not whether to stay or go, it's whether to do it now or later. There is no universe where I'd want to be with this person for the rest of my life. [/quote] I would wait out high school and make sure your finances are in the best possible shape. You say you won't remarry, but what if your ex does? There will be fallout and it will affect the kids and you. And it's not really about remarriage, it's about you having a partner, even a casual one, and how that affects the family.[/quote]
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