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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hope the parents leave all the money to the brother who showed up not the one who had prior commitments and other vacations planned.[/quote] Op here This is already happening. I don't have a relationship with our Mom bc she is abusive. I'm fine with it, he should get the money. He is doing the work.[/quote] I just posted, but if she is abusive that changes things a little. If she has money you outsource EVERYTHING and thank him profusely for all he has done many times. If she doesn't have money you see what she qualifies for for free and yoiu have adult protective services check in on her as needed. You make it clear due to abuse you cannot take her in, he cannot take her/them in and he can no longer be involved. When the parent ends up in the hospital you let the social worker know the situation and the social worker will find a safe placement for release.[/quote]
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