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[quote=Anonymous]We're Jewish so we go every year to visit my parents on their yartziets and leave rocks. Our little kids also paint rocks to leave at the grave. When I was little we did the same for my grandfather. My parents would say going too often isn't good for you and to focus on the living. When I do go I usually talk to them about our lives, kids and difficult things I'm navigating in life. It's "pointless" in the sense they're not literally there, but sometimes letting your feelings out into the universe can really help. I lost my best friend a year ago and visiting my Mom's grave and crying to her about it brought me a lot of closure.[/quote]
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