Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Tension with Wife's Family over Finances"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]You are very lucky that your family has helped you out by paying for your education and also pays for the vacations and your home. Most families are not like that and it's likely very rare. In many families, the parents want to join in on their adult children's vacations, who then pay. I disagree that you subsidize your FIL when you go 50/50. You pay for your share, like when you go with other adults. Since you seem to be high-earning yourself, your FIL doesn't want to pay for you and your family (essentially subsidize you). Normally once one is an adult, one pays for themselves. However, if you don't like that, you don't have to go, just like you wouldn't go if your friend invited you to a very expensive restaurant. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics