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[quote=Anonymous]Ugh I am sorry. Over time I have managed to create a more positive relationship with my ex by trying to be friendlier in person and being very non reactive when he reverts to being a d*ck. Our kid has had some issues so there have been times where I have had to sincerely ask my ex for help and expressed my emotions to him, and I think that has helped us function more as a team. As weird as it seems, you can try some of the stuff recommended for relationships even now that you are divorced - positive reinforcement, expressing gratitude, showing vulnerability, resisting labeling. I find that I am actually much more able to do this now (since the stakes are lower) that when we were together. if he reverts to being a jerk - oh well, so sad, I get to go home to my own house where I blissfully do not have to deal with him! [/quote]
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