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[quote=Anonymous]I’m 52F, divorced at 47. If you want to date (big if, it’s ugly out there, totally fine to decide you’re happier without it, but if), you cannot give up on your own desirability. Most good (non abuser) people don’t want to date someone who doesn’t feel good about themselves. I advise you to reframe desirability in an age appropriate way. Staying fit and wearing flattering clothes go a long way. Color your hair and keep it well styled. Etc. do things in your control (and I don’t mean plastic surgery!) and know you are doing your best. Some guys will look past you, a lot of them want younger and tighter, but not all of them, and you don’t want them anyway. I have found a few good guys my age that will accept signs of aging in exchange for what we have in common - parent:kid issues, musical tastes, cultural references, etc. currently dating one and we regularly joke about the sugar cereals we ate (or weren’t allowed to eat) in the 70s 😂 [/quote]
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