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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our divorce was finalized just a month ago and I heard from my boys that my ex-husband brought a woman in the house that seems to be his gf during his parenting time.  There is nothing in our agreement that says anything about this, so do I just stay silent? I feel deeply hurt that he is rushing into new relationships and is [b]introducing kids to strange women[/b], that he may not even plan to be in a long term relationship with or marry.[/quote]

Why do you assume he isn't already familiar with these women?  [/quote]
They’re strange to the children DUH[/quote]

Everyone is a stranger until you are introduced.

A parent is capable of deciding whether or not another adult can be introduced to their child.[/quote]
So what? And another parent is capable of finding it, [b]in good faith, [/b]inappropriate for their children to have this sprung on them one month after the divorce. We have freedom of speech and belief in this country.[/quote]

We have reason to question this. OP gives herself away with this admission

[b]"I feel deeply hurt that he is rushing into new relationships"[/b]

That is not her business anymore. It's now a reason to suspect she isn't acting in good faith.[/quote]
She’s human, but taking her feelings out of it, you can still have objectively good faith reasons for not bringing women whose level of commitment are unknown (really, the level of commitment of the exDH to them!) in and out of children’s lives.

Again, DH doesn’t have to agree, but it can be and often is imprudent in practice to involve young children in this stuff.[/quote]

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