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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t even get through this whole list because I am aghast and I’m a mandated reporter. How could you have let this go on this long? Why did you have 3 kids with this person?? At this point you are an enabler and complicit. I’m not a troll- I’m being straight with you here. At a certain point, you become just as guilty as he is by continuing to leave your children with him. First, document all of this as you have here. Second, get him a full psych evaluation and parenting classes. In all seriousness, if I knew who you were irl, I would have to report all of this. You need very serious intervention at this point- and I would try this before divorce because I worry there would be 50/50 custody.[/quote]

Could you recommend parenting classes?We are not having anymore kids. For a long time I doubted my self because I can generally be too much the other way.(according to him…but I was convinced and I am definitely a mom that is type A in a lot of ways I guess you can say. ) but with the baby now I am seriously concerned. [/quote]

I say this with love - but he’s gaslighting you. That’s why you doubted yourself and went against your instincts. I would check out PEP classes for anything parenting related. I’m sorry if I was harsh earlier, I just really want you to know how serious this is and you are NOT overreacting.[/quote]

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