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Reply to "What do people who get cheated on tell themselves?"
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[quote=Anonymous]"OP, questions like yours are designed to blame the victim of abuse. That’s what cheating is - a cruel form of abuse and manipulation. People who ask what the victims did to cause the infidelity abuse are allying themselves with the Epsteins, the Weinsteins and the Monsieur Pelicots of the world - men who use their power to deceive and/or coerce someone into a sexual relationship they would not otherwise accept. It’s long past time for men to be responsible for their own actions. Men who cheat choose to cheat - not because anyone made them - and they know they will largely not be held to account for it in any serious way." It's way too easy to make it a simple thing like the patriarchy. Most caveman type backwards men don't cheat on their wives. And most of the men who cheated go on to be in stable satisfying relationships down the line. Plus, how do you explain all the cheating wives? How is that caused by male power?[/quote]
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