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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Inspired by the other thread, I'm wondering what people tell themselves when their spouse cheats on them. Do they reflect on their own behaviors and patterns and consider what role they played in creating the circumstances that led to the affair? Do they care whether their spouse wants to leave them for the AP? Is it less devastating if the spouse wants to stay married?[/quote] I had no part in my ex-husband deciding to cheat. That decision was his and his alone. There was not one AP but multiple. He was on dating sites and also solicited prostitutes. He wanted to stay married but he wasn’t willing to do anything differently, so I left. I don’t know that it made it less devastating.[/quote]
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