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[quote=Anonymous]I find it really sad that people are so hung up about their "genes'  or whatever that they don't foster kids who already dont have parents and give them a loving home. I LOVE babies but they are only babies for a little while. I  find people who adopt out of foster care to be much more admirable, especially with the sort of financial capacity this man has.

I mean more power to him and how he chose to parent and I think we need to put more emphasis on how fatherhood is a meaningful exercise and support fathers but people who become parents through surrogacy aren't admirable.  they aren't doing a good deed.  they are just following their biological or emotional or whatever imperative.

people who adopt kids out of the foster care system  are admirable- not ppl who are looking for babies through adoption agencies, they are just coping with infertility just like the ivf people, and that is hard but it doesn't make your journey admirable- but people who actually do the work of repairing the world through giving a stable home and supportive environment to a homeless child.  [/quote]

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