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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So we've devolved from kids shouldn't want fancy sneakers or iPhones, to kids shouldn't want guac? OP, what is your end goal here? If you want to control it, you can. It sounds like you've already laid a guilt trip on your DD. You really need to journal on this, and then journal some more, and then some more until you have some clarity. [/quote] I used a strawman example, but the larger question I was trying to pose is do you try to instill a sense of want in your kid? Or do you give them everything on a silver platter? My kids know we only buy things on sale and that we buy what we need, not every luxury we feel like. We drive older cars and us our phones into the ground. My DS wanted a pair of resale Nikes that were $300. I told he he'd need to get a job and buy them with his own money, even though we can afford it. That motivated him.[/quote] I don’t disagree on the principle, but I think this is an odd hill to die on. It’s literally less than $100 a year to let the kid get queso once a week. Why make $450k if you can’t spend $100 for a year’s worth of queso?[/quote]
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