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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean not really, no. Some people are closer or have warmer relationships than others but what you’re describing abt someone who is “nice” and was a good dad seems pretty unusual. Not criticizing you btw as it sounds pretty bleak for you as well. Are you sure you aren’t depressed or burnt out? [/quote]

I honestly don’t know about burn out. I do enjoy other relationships in my life. 
My dad is nice enough but I guess cognitively declined enough to not be an exciting conversation partner. [/quote]

Think hard about what you just wrote.  Seriously.  When you aren't fun or interesting anymore, you cool with everyone writing you off?  I bet there were lots of times when your parents didn't find you an exciting conversation partner, either, but they loved you.  Have some grace.  Spare an hour or two for boring conversation-- or card games, or eating a meal together, or something else that isn't about whether or not you are entertained.   We all get old.  A good dad who is just a little dull deserves love and attention, too.[/quote]

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