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[quote=Anonymous]Please read "It's Not You" -- it saved my life from similar situations. It's NOT you. Also, yes, an inebriated man is much more likely to act inappropriately in front of AND *with* impressionable girls. I have so many of these nightmarish encounters when I was a younger -- please stand your ground. Your instincts are RIGHT -- even if you cannot explain them or have proof. They are maternal instincts placed there for a reason to protect you and your children. Plus, hello, it is YOUR home. Even if he was a nice guy, you have a right not to have to host people. DUH! I must wonder if your husband was/is a victim of his mom. Start with this book -- do not share it with him at first until you know if he'll be receptive (the book says this -- otherwise, he and his mom can twist it against you). He could be the golden child and the brother could be the scapegoat (both why he drinks and why the mom won't host him).[/quote]
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