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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just got the save the date for a wedding for my BIL's wedding in the midwest. Would you assume "Mr and Mrs Smith" on the envelope means just the couple and no kids? I expect the actual invitation will have more clarity with the RSVP options, but we have a baby who will be a little over a year old at the time of the wedding and I need to feel out child care options with my side of the family as early as possible if he isn't invited.

And yes, DH and I could just ask but that feels annoying. Maybe I'm over thinking it. I'm a little surprised this wedding would be no kids as the couple are both youngest children and all of their siblings have young kids and most live out of state like we do. Feels like a lot of important people will not be able to make and/or have to leave the reception early if no kids are allowed. [/quote]

Don’t ask. Take your baby with you. Don’t traumatize a 1 year old. [/quote]

Traumatize? Are you always this unhinged?

OP, absolutely ask as it is extremely rude to assume and just take the child.[/quote]

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