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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Expectations are premeditated resentments. Put on your big kid unds and use your words to ask for exactly what you want. Plan it yourself. Happiness is an inside job. Quit trying to outsource it so you can blame your spouse in advance for your decision to be unhappy on a hallmark holiday. If he loves you the other 364 days of the year, you're fine. If he's awful the other 364, get a divorce. You're an adult. Adults make choices.[/quote] I chose to plan a trip for myself this year over Valentine's Day. It's an active vacation where I'll be with other people who share my interests. Really looking forward to it and more in the future. DH and I just don't have anything in common anymore, other than our kids. I'm investing my time, energy, hopes and money elsewhere now. [/quote]
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