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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We’ve been together for 15 years and have four kids (11, 9, 7, and 3) and I’m currently pregnant with a surprise fifth. I still work full time and life is busy and exhausting.

Over the years he’s become really hard to be around — almost like another child. I manage his life on top of everything else, and it’s wearing me down. Deep down [b]I still believe he’s my soulmate[/b], which makes the disconnect confusing and painful.

My kids give me a distraction and keep me going. I’ve talk my mom, she’s the only person I have, but I don’t feel comfortable talking to anyone else, and [b]I don’t really have friends[/b], so I just needed somewhere anonymous to vent.[/quote]

I'm asking this seriously - have you ever been in therapy? I find it very odd that you have no friends and must be, what, at least 40? Were you homeschooled? If not, I assume you had friends in high school, in college (did you go to college?), in grad school, parents of your kids' friends, etc. How do you have no friends?! And you think your husband is your soul mate? That's a really childish thing to say. I adore my husband and I can't even fathom life without him and I would do anything to fight for my marriage but I don't think he's my soul mate. I think if I had lived in ID instead of VA I'd have met and married someone else. You sound very immature, I guess is what I'm getting it, which is a bit scary since you have five children. [/quote]

No friends?  I'd get sick of my h too.[/quote]

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