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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As long as she's not living with you and you're not giving her money, stay out of it.[/quote] Why not give her money? I would.[/quote] Because she can get a better job, and she's choosing not to. [/quote] She still deserves help even if she's not doing what her parents want. I assume they paid for college because she was pursuing something they approved of. Don't burn your bridges now, OP.[/quote] I’m in the “don’t give her money camp”. Just like tax incentives guide public choices - parental incentives should guide adult children choices. I would not pay for my kid to even do an art degree - I would pay for a degree I thought was worthwhile. It’s my money - I choose. Just like scholarship foundations choose which degrees they sponsor and which kids. Parents can do the same as long as the same rules apply to all the children. Equal opportunity not equal money spent.[/quote]
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