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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What did she do that was mean girl? Being obsessed with her image and posting on social media is not mean girl. Don't be friends with her if you don't want to be, but that's not a mean girl. [/quote]

OP. Sorry the social media stuff is not related to the mean girl stuff. She was pretty mean to me not overt ways but more in the sarcastic, backhanded comments she would make about me. I’m too boring, need to have more fun, do ketamine, etc. [/quote]

That's obnoxious.

So she's stopped with the mean comments now? And is being friendly/solicitous?

I wonder if after you distanced due to her mean behavior, she tried to talk $hit about you with others and discovered you are well liked, so changed her tune to protect her own rep. I have seen that before. She likely saw you as a rival initially, thought she could use mean girl tactics to put you down, and it backfired.

Would definitely steer clear of her. Polite but distant. She was trying to use you as a foil before, now she wants to use you as an ally. You were right to read her behavior the way you did from the start. [/quote]

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