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[quote=Anonymous]If I were OP, I'd want to do some work on myself and check in with myself about whether I'm making progress. Has OP done a deep dive on the state of their marriage and what about it made her husband feel interested in another relationship? I'd be especially concerned about this being an emotional affair. To me, that says that their emotional relationship was not good. Sure, maybe she thought it was good. But she clearly missed something. Do they have different hopes and expectations and that is why they have a disconnect? Also, it doesn't sound like OP's husband ever saw this as an exit affair. If not, what does that tell OP about what she and her husband each want from a partner? Was he filling a hole that OP refuses to fill? [/quote]
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