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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish I had read this thread before accepting Club P’s offer last October. It’s just February, and I’m paying $1,000+ per month while my DD has been benched in most tournaments so far. Part of me wants to encourage my DD to leave the club to save the time and money spent on tournaments, but I know the decision has to be hers. She’s okay with things so far and is hoping for more playing time over the next three months, though I’m not sure that will actually happen. I’m not sure why the club offered my DD a spot if they don’t seem interested in developing her as a player. We feel like we’re just paying fees to support the coaches’ stipends and help cover costs for other players. Part of me wishes my DD would say she wants to stop for the rest of the season. Then at least I wouldn’t have to go to tournaments just to see her on the sidelines, make sure she’s okay, and pretend that I’m handling it all emotionally. Next year, I’ll be sure to check that the roster isn’t larger than 12, that coaches are assigned ahead of time, and that I know who they are. Playing time is very important for players’ confidence and team spirit. Even on a winning team, if some players don’t get meaningful playing time, it can impact everyone—both the benched players and their teammates—because the disappointment and frustration affect team morale. Here’s hoping I survive the next four months without hating this club and its coaches too much  :? . [/quote]

I think I know what club you are talking about.  The club practices like you play, but plays to win at tournaments and will put forth their best players. I have been to the past two tournaments and seen half of the team on the sidelines.  It's great to win medals, but not great if your DD is not playing.  It's a very long weekend just to clap and cheer.[/quote]

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