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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Action, or in your case, no action. Talk doesn't matter. There are no magic words. Talk will likely just escalate her emotional manipulation Btw, how do you know what she spends it on? Mine had a debit card, only, in college and I tried not to look. The times I did look I made some wrong assumptions. Called DS in a panic thinking something was wrong with his (our) car and he was afraid to tell us. There were Uber charges for transportation. My 21 yr old said, "Mom we were out and had been drinking. I took an Uber home. You wouldn't have wanted me to drive, right?"[/quote] Yes, I can see debit transactions. I don't exactly monitor but there are some occasions where I see what she's purchasing. She just spent time overseas on a study abroad program and the card got compromised, so I've been monitoring transactions a little more closely. [/quote]
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