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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would you not respect their wishes?[/quote]

Do you not understand how awful it is to be the person making the decision for them?[/quote]

I'm sorry OP.  I'm not PP but I do know how awful it is to have to make these decisions.  But with the advanced directive, your parent already made the decision. You just have to honor it.  [/quote]

Thank you. This is helpful.

I was also thinking I could share the directive with others in the family because there are some mentally ill relatives who would say horrible things about me for following the directive.

OP[/quote]
It is hard, and I have been there, but you made a commitment. If people are going to talk about you that can’t be your priority. If that’s kind of behavior, you’re expecting I would not share the advanced directive with them because they will just try to twist the words to mean what they want them to mean. Your answer to anyone who questions you is that you are acting consistent with your parents wishes and the advice of their medical team. Your sole focus at this point is the comfort of the parent who trusted you to take care of them when they could not take care of themselves. People need to get on the train or get off the tracks. Do not let them suck your energy.[/quote]

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