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[quote=Anonymous]Op - I don't think your expectations are reasonable or healthy. Is your husband comfortable coming to you to point out a list of your flaws? And would you respond without getting defensive or emotionally reactive and just validate those flaws and change to conform to his expectations? That is what you are asking of him. If yes and that is the pattern in your home, and you feel that is how you react when he comes to you with flaws but he doesn't react similarly - then it is time for couples counselling. Personally I think that is an unhealthy way to manage conflict. Viewing the other person through the lens of flaws and wanting to list those to them and expecting them to just yes maam, no maam you really isn't a healthy marriage. [/quote]
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