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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For the majority of women, this approach is best. [/quote]

If you want a bad boyfriend who doesn't care about consent so when you try and get away, he comes after you because it is oh so fun to be chased. TO have someone who won't respect you and comes after you no matter what.

Then you will be on here complaining about oh he turned out to be a stalker. So surprising. [/quote]

I don’t think “chase” is the best word here.

Obviously if you tell a man no and he still pursues you, that’s not okay. I’ve had a couple guys I went out with once or twice, wasn’t feeling it, ended it, and they kept reaching out for weeks/months until I blocked them. That’s a red flag.

What OP is probably talking about is the huge number of men who will respond to your messages, but never really initiate messages or ask you out. Probably 80% of men on OLD fall in this category. A lot are married or in a LTR, or they just want entertainment, or they want you as a backup, or they’re just not that interested. Those are the men you want to avoid, and rather than continuing to initiate conversations or ask them out, you should just unmatch/move on.

My BF (who I met on a dating app) initiated conversations, asked thoughtful questions, asked me out, and planned a really thoughtful date. You want to focus on those guys who are actually into you. [/quote]

This and I think OP is misuse the word Chase here. At her age, noone should be chasing anyone. Pursue if there is an interest or good luck to them. [/quote]

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