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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He may not even realize that he’s being selfish. So yell at him. Be very blunt. He needs to hear how much he is messing things up for you. Blow your top that you’re underwater with responsibilities plus trying to clear things up for the estate and he has 3 simple tasks that will lighten the load immensely if he’d just make the time to do them this week. [/quote] Terrible advice. She describes someone attached to routine who likely deals with a lot of anxiety or other mental health issues and cannot cope. The worst thing you can do is "blow your top"/"yell at him." The best thing you do is deal with reality. He cannot cope. Do not push him over the edge. Either hold his hand or see if you can hire someone to do this all. [/quote]
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