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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a guy that divorced... is it 20 years ago now?
I'm the one that moved out. I had my faults in the relationship and did everything that was asked to try to fix things. (Well, getting a new job was a struggle at the time, but everything else.) But eventually I finally moved out. I still vividly remember laying in bed the first night thinking about if it was the right decision after all of the stuff, and all of the efforts I made, and the counseling that I went to, and then she finally decided to get involved with when "divorce" was mentioned. And then I suddenly felt all of the pent up stress that I had just wash away. That I didn't have to live within the box and rules and everything anymore and I could do whatever I wanted. In hindsight, sometimes I think about some things from when we were dating that I should've viewed as bigger red flags. I wouldn't have done things over again with her. Sure, I had some things to work on with myself. That new freedom gave me the opportunity to work on things without walking on egg shells and feeling like nothing I did was right.[/quote]

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