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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree that hunting down the tickets would have been one option, but since you planned the other dates, I can understand why you didn’t want to take the lead on the next one.

Still, I think you dropped the ball when you suggested “one of our places” and did not follow up with anything more concrete.
1- inviting yourself over
2- before you have invited her to your place 
3- maybe she has a roommate?
4- would you expect her to cook for you?

Why not offer to grab take out on Saturday night and suggest a specific movie to watch. Then, “Your place or mine?”[/quote]

OP here. When I originally suggested staying in, I asked is she’d like to do her place or mine. She said she didn’t know. So I offered to come to her place, because she did a lot of driving with her friends the day before. I was going to surprise her and bring a dish I cooked that she said is one of her favorites.[/quote]

So, she’s the type of woman who wants a man to take charge. You need to figure out if 1. That’s the kind of woman you want and 2. If you can be that kind of man.

If she was tired from driving with her friends, take charge and say “I’ll come over there and I’m bringing that dish you said you liked. Does 6 o clock work?”

If you can’t be that, save both of you the trouble and end it now. [/quote]

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