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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I come from very humble beginnings but we have done well financially. I grew up poor as a child of immigrants and know too well what it is like to have no money.

I have noticed for a few years that certain friends decline invitations likely because of money. This can be my kids’ friends or mom friends or old friends from childhood. I try to pick up the bigger bills or cover hotel saying I have a lot of points. This gets harder to do as we all have kids and can’t all fit into one hotel room or suite.

Is there a tactful way of saying I will pay for an outing or trip without insulting someone?

I am specifically thinking of a new friend. Our kids get along great. They will offer to hang out for free outings like to a park or library but decline any and all activities that cost anything.[/quote]

Be clear upfront about your intentions, offer to host at your home or your country club (where it’s often impossible for guests to pay!), or just take the kids as someone suggested.

Traveling, especially with kids, is expensive and there are logistical considerations (pet sitting may need to be schedules, it may be a busy time at work and a parent may want to catch up on stuff, etc). You sound like a thoughtful friend. [/quote]

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