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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can relate to a good portion of this OP. My best advice is to keep doing you. Don’t bend and morph into what anyone else expects, hints or projects onto you. If you want to invite or give, keep doing that. If people want to get offended over reciprocation or the places you invite them to, let them do them while you do you. You report to yourself (and God if you are religious), it is very difficult to control what other people do and to appease to their every whim.

Please don’t walk on eggshells trying to find a tactful way to do the things that you normally do (unless they severely veer from social norms or are harmful to others, which I know can be relative for some people). If these friends go by the wayside, so be it. You will find others you mesh with.[/quote]

This is really bad advice.

OP , you said you were poor so empathy for their circumstances should be easy for you.  Having good manners dictates that you act in a predictable way where everyone knows the rules and is comfortable.  You don’t have to “walk on eggshells” to be considerate or kind - you literally just have to be empathetic.[/quote]

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