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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry for you. I went through the same exact thing in my divorce.  It was like I had three full-time jobs. He basically abandoned us so I was full-time working, and full-time parenting, and full-time doing all the divorce record and financial management discovery etc since my ex h basically had the financial skills of a child so I always handled all the investing.

It may get worse too OP, because I had also had to give him half my hard earned saving/investments to go live his new unencumbered life with his AP. 
As a few divorce lawyers told me, often the irresponsible party makes out like a bandit[/quote]

Three full-time jobs is exactly how it feels. I’m constantly scrambling. I’m sorry you were abandoned, too. My DH seems to pop up whenever the custody evaluator emails him for an appointment and suddenly needs to be Dad of the Year for 3 hours but only if it doesn’t conflict with his flights, meetings, or fun trips. If I don’t rearrange everything on demand then I get secondhand emails from his attorney via my attorney calling me uncooperative.

Discovery is going to take a million years because he tried to hide a ton of stuff and/or is just stupid. Hard to tell which. It’s painful to see the assets he secretly squirreled away and then lost through his dumb stock market ideas.

I was in a low place tonight but knowing there are at least two women out there who got through and survived is going to keep me going. I am grateful that you took the time to comment and hope I can be as strong as you. [/quote]

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