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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't "cheat" on a FWB. That's why they're a FWB instead of a BF/GF.[/quote]

This.
Sounds like you caught feelings and are now embarrassed that it isn’t reciprocated and are now looking for a way out if the arrangement by blaming him of wrongdoing.
It’s weird to have an “agreement” with a FWB. I guess I don’t get how that is any different from having a bf/gf setup.
The “agreement” of “let me know before you decide to see other people” is really just the same as a bf/gf have.Am I missing something? Don’t couples who are dating have the same arrangement? When one of the two wants to see someone else, they either break up or start cheating. If you require him to tell you first (or claim it’s disrespectful if he doesn’t ) then how are you not making him into your bf? FWB dont owe you anything and the point is you get sex with no strings attached and no expectation of romantic feelings.[/quote]

No, FWB is an arrangement where people still have rules. The rules are whichever they agree upon based on their needs. The difference with BF/GF could be that they don’t introduce to friends and family, and don’t go out together in public. And date other people without sleeping with them until someone meets a serious partner. Usually it takes a few dates to become intimate - it’s not just “falling on someone’s D”. He had plenty of time to give her notice. But he wants in fact to KEEP sex from OP and sleep with others. 
And no string attached is just dating sleeping around. That is not FWB (the latter is a continuous sex arrangement under certain terms between people who don’t plan to be long term partners). [/quote]

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