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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love this for you. We are way less than 2x a month. I feel like I should take some notes here. Can I ask your age? I'm 50 and she's late 40s[/quote]

Late 40s here. What do you think is the biggest issue for you two in this area?
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She keeps busy with lots of stuff.
We'll just watch a lot of TV.
Kids that are getting older and stay up later now.
She falls asleep quickly.
[b]I have never really been a big flirt[/b].
I am never really sure if she wants it and hasn't seemed bothered by our lack of sex.
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Meaning, you have no idea how to initiate. That’s a pretty big turnoff for women. Many women’s desire comes from being desired. It’s a tough job for men, but it’s important if you want to keep the bedroom alive. If she wants it, you’ll know. She’s doing her duty. Get some confidence and seduce her. [/quote]

I can accept that. I would say that it's true. And I can admit that I haven't done enough for being affectionate. I do my best to carry my load with the household, though... cooking, shopping, taking care of kids, yada yada yada.

I've kind of always been shy and awkward with women. Didn't date in high school. I managed to get married, though. (Twice)

Some good news, though. I did initiate this Saturday morning. I told her that I am bad at initiating. She suggested to make it as a new years resolution. So maybe things will heat up this year.[/quote]

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