Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Diagnose my sister. What is going on? "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]It really sounds like she has mental and physical health issues that are multiplying and feeding off each other as a result of being very overweight. When you are very overweight into your mid 30s and older, you don’t have as much energy as a normal weight or slightly overweight person. Then you start to get depressed because you can’t do as much as your peers. Then your hygiene goes by the wayside because you’re depressed and/or because you don’t have the physical energy to shower, brush teeth etc. Then your depression worsens because you know your hygiene is bad. And so on and so forth. Again this isn’t about carrying an extra 10 lbs from kids or being post-menopausal or whatever. Being a few lbs overweight is vastly different than being seriously obese. Unfortunately she has to be the one to fix this problem for herself and it will take a combination of weight loss meds/injections and lifestyle changes. You’re right to be concerned, but ultimately, you can’t force someone to take responsibility for their own health. But I really do think if she gets the weight under control, the hygiene, sleeping too much, etc. will also improve. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics