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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do not care the circumstances, I would not bail him out. Be honest, you are paying for his college, his car, his food, the clothes on his back, and the condoms he fucks his girlfriend with, while probably not even working. The least he could do is stay away from any legal troubles. I would not bail him out. [/quote]
I respectfully believe this is short sighted. They've probably "invested" hundreds of thousands into this child already. He's at a critical point in his life and has stumbled.  If they don't provide him need now height make a bad turn from which it will be very difficult to reverse. If I were OP I'd double down. I would be there to "bail him out" for several more years and of course couple that with counseling and even closer involvement and engagement. Takes some boys til there close to 30. Some even need to really hit bottom and go to rehab etc. thankfully the tough cases in my extended family have turned out well, but OP this could be the tip of an iceberg of hell and you and husband need to remember this is you flesh and blood and with tons of love he will repay you later in spades. At least that's based on my own observation with some family. [/quote]

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