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[quote=Anonymous]With the stress you are feeling ( brother and SIL not paying fairly) I’d just announce that the celebrations have been fun but you are cutting back spending or eating out ( you choose) but still want family time or family celebrations so would like to ask if it can now be desert only. This way all together, the person you are celebrating can choose the desert ( they bring) and that is your rotation. If the point is to be together and celebrate birthdays or milestones, the weight of “ paying one’s fair share” is lifted Why bother the pretense of being together and enjoying everyone’s company if you or others are going to comp,Ian on the way home, or call the other sib the next day to talk about the other. Reframe this to be about family and not food. All I’ve got to offer.[/quote]
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