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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, this is an issue for us. When we started dating and even when we first got married, it was not an issue at all — if anything, she wanted it more. Now, after some health issues for her combined with menopause, her libido has plummeted — though she says she is still attracted to me (and I believe her). Meanwhile, after stopping porn and other major changes I made in my life, my desire for her has never been higher. Here’s our compromise — we still try to have sex at least once a week. In between that, we shower together most days and she gives me HJ releases there. I find it sexy and fun, it shows her desire for me, and the release definitely helps with my “pent up” energy for her. We arrived at this point after some serious marriage counseling though and both of us realizing that we needed to make compromises. It didn’t happen overnight. We also still kiss a lot — like real kisses, not little pecks. Those help a lot too. [/quote]
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