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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]By being amazing, reliable, caring, attractive women.[/quote]

+1. I had two other guys interested in marrying me. I chose the best one. [/quote]

This. +1 [/quote]

Yes, but OP doesn’t have these options, or she wouldn’t be here asking.

OP, I went on over 30 first dates. If a guy had any shot at all, he got a first date. Always order drip coffee to keep it affordable for him if he’s paying. I would date guys until I realized that I wasn’t interested in marrying them. Once I realized this, I broke up immediately. It’s actually good to be single most of the time. A great guy won’t be interested in poaching a girl who’s dating someone else. If I wasn’t feeling chemistry by date 6, I would break it up. It’s okay if you don’t feel chemistry on the first date. DH and I clicked on the fourth date, but the first three dates were stilted and awkward.

If you don’t know how to tell whether you’re interested in marrying a guy, you can do this mental exercise. Make a list of your ten favorite people. List two things you like best about each person and one thing you don’t like about each person. Now look for patterns. The person you marry should have the traits you find attractive in your friends.

For example, you might like that one friend always asks how you are and really listens to the answer. Another friend gives great hugs. A third friend is unfailingly kind to people who are lower on the social totem pole. Another friend is always on time and very organized. Any character traits that are represented by multiple friends should be ones you seek out. No spouse will be perfect, but if you value an even temperament, you’ll be very unhappy with a dramatic spouse. Pick three to five traits that you will not compromise on. Be flexible on less important attributes. [/quote]

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