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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who cares. I'd be celebrating if I was you.[/quote] I’m not celebrating despite having been discriminated by FIL and other members of the family. When my mother died none of my ILs sent me condolences, offered support, or showed a tiny wave of empathy. It brakes my heart seeing DH’s crying. [/quote] That's a very selfish reaction. Condolences from others and being upset at losing a loved one do not take priority over the last moments of the dying person. Those last moments (including the last days or weeks) need to be as pain-free as possible. Dying by inches from cancer, when pain meds do nothing to blunt your pain, is excruciating. If this person chose to leave early, I don't care what the law says. It's a wise decision, and other people's feelings are SECONDARY. Stop making it all about you and your husband, and grow up. [/quote]
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