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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re not very bright. People flirt all the time without any intention of going further.

As a reasonably cute woman, I can guarantee that if I walk into a room full of married men, I get looks and conversation starters. The immense majority are not out to proposition me. They want to spend a few minutes getting attention from an attractive member of the opposite sex while they wait for their kid’s activity or pick up stuff at Home Depot. It makes them feel happy, which is understandable.

Same thing here.

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You know very very very little about men if you think they wouldnt bang you.[/quote]

PP you replied to. That's not the question, actually, and you are very wrong if you start thinking about men-women relations from that angle. The problem for most people is that even if they're interested, they are conditioned not to ask for inappropriate things. Apart from a few desperate guys, most married men I interact with would never, in a billion years, suggest anything untoward, even if they enjoy my company and find me attractive (something a lot of them signal, but not in explicit terms).

In other words, it's socially acceptable to sublimate your desires into non-sexual interactions. And those interactions, the vast majority of the time, do not lead to sex.

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How do you know these men have these desires? I tend to assume people are just being nice because I am nice and friendly to others without any sexual tension/desires. And I know some genuinely nice men too who are equally nice to women across the board, attractive or not.

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