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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ladies, learn to ask the nice, shy boys out in your elite college. Times have changed, and it shouldn’t just be up to them. If their lack of confidence is a turn off, that’s a you problem: they will be rich and confident in their 30s and no longer interested in women their own age.[/quote]

Yup. Guy here who was the quintessential "nice guy" in college - too shy to date much, plenty of female friends but no relationships. Lots of attractive but not super attractive girls wouldn't give me the time of day in college - usually the really hot girls were actually nicer. Now I am happily married with kids, fairly successful, etc. And a lot of those who wouldn't bother with me are still single and constantly on social media either posting about nieces, nephews and/or pets and/or they had kids on their own because they were constantly too good for men and no men wanted to put up with their crap anymore. I always enjoy seeing them at reunions, alumni events, etc.[/quote]

What do you mean by, “wouldn’t give you the time of day?” You say you were too shy to ask anyone out.  What did you expect? Were they supposed to ask YOU out?

Men need to learn to ask women out.  If you lack the confidence to do so, your dating life won’t be robust. By and large, women don’t want to be the pursuers.  [/quote]

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