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[quote=Anonymous] OP, I don't live in your state and am not a lawyer, but I have some thoughts.

First, I would take ds to the dr next time he comes home with a headache or vomiting. This is documentation for you. Also, I'd get him into therapy. It helped my dd to have someone to talk to-although our divorce was not difficult, ex still said a few crazy things and this helped. And defenitely talk to your actual lawyer.

I would try to get use of an app like OurFamilyWizard ordered, so communication is kept track of and can be viewed by a court (if necessary). Also I would get put in the order that neither parent can disparage the other to the child. Will this stop him? probably not, but it would give grounds to file contempt (but I'm not a lawyer so ask yours about it).

One thing that I did that I think helped dd a lot was to tell her she can ask me or tell me about anything she wanted to including anything her dad ever said-that I would never get mad or hurt at what she repeated. That way she knew that I would never be upset (to her) if she repeated something negative about me.[/quote]

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