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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve brought up that I’d like to more often. Doesn’t help.[/quote]
Try doing more chores [/quote]

That does not work!

I have to sleep with you because you did dishes and laundry? [/quote]

I read PP as being sarcastic with the "chores" remark. I've seen it less around here in recent years, but there was a period of time where "choreplay" was all the rage in terms of recommendations given to men complaining about their sex life. But, as you note: a) it doesn't work; and b) it's kind of gross when you think about the transaction it implies.

I know others will point to overloaded wives and mothers who would be in the mood for sex more often if they just had a little time to relax. That's certainly not a demographic of zero. But I'm also not convinced it's a huge subset of the wives who don't really want to have sex with their husbands very often. [b]There are women whose hormones are such that their libido isn't going to get revved up no matter how much free time they have. There are women who, no matter how much their husband takes off their plate, will fill that plate with a lot of other things other than sex. There are women whose husbands are already doing a shit ton for the relationship and the family.[/b] [/quote]

[b]I've got one of these.[/b][/quote]

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