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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What has happened with the other 6 girls in the group. Are they still friends with both Larla and your DD. Are they now split into two groups and had to take sides? Do they all still hangout together if your DD is avoiding Larla?

The friend group is a pretty good barometer. They know both of them and see them day in and day out. Kids by 8th grade know who is the problem. If the friend group has gravitated towards your DD, then they know Larla is just stirring up stuff, if its the opposite then your DD is the problem. If they split in half, they are just over the drama and picked sides. [/quote]

This is OP. The group is pretty much all still friends, which makes it really hard for everyone else to be in the middle of this. Larla also has made some other friends outside of this group from what I have been told. For example, my DD says Larla eats at a different lunch table now sometimes whereas before they all ate together every day. There are a couple girls who seem to be on my DD’s side and said they have texts they would be willing to share to show it’s not only my DD being mean to her, but I really don’t want to put them in the middle of this.[/quote]

Wow you know way too much OP

The problem is your kid.

My oldest was L and your kid is a twat who was a mean girl.

Stay out of it

Stop bringing the other girls into it too

What are you  in middle school??

You create a brat and gossiping twat [/quote]

I am not the OP but the PP who just commented on the type of mom who thinks it’s never their kid.  They are angry and lack any self-control or self-awareness (for example calling children twats).  They are irrational and over involved and fill their kid’s head with the same crap that is in their head.  And the whole time they think they are the victim and in the right.

OP didn’t start this the other mother approached her, btw.  She never wanted to be in it.[/quote]

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